Wednesday, 24 December 2008

• He fell out of love as soon as I fell in love

  It started off as friendship. But, let's face it - a guy and girl can never be friends without one of them falling for the other. So that's basically what happened.
  
  I was best friends with a guy for a long time, perhaps a year or so. He asked me out within that time period, and I said no because I couldn't see him as anything more. Sometime later, I started noticing how much of a great friend he was and how much I deserved a guy who would treat me right after all the jerks I've been with. He got the hint, made a move, and we hooked up.
  
  We lasted just a little more than a month. Yes, I know... very short for best friends turned lovers. You would think that those would last forever. Anyway, he starts to disappear, and I come to find out that he's lost interest in me, and doesn't feel the same as he did before. Great, he falls out of love just after he makes me fall in love with him!
  
  I've tried winning him back for months after the breakup, and it never led to success. He'd come around, but for a day or two. And it always led to physical affection. He would be hot and cold about being with me. He admits to having a phobia for commitment. He's changed in ways I can't even explain. I can't seem to get over it because I keep thinking about the person he was, and can't seem to accept the person he is now. It's been months. I was the one to always call, text, while he never initiated first. Now he completely ignores me. I admit to having blown things out of proportion, but now returning to our old friendship seems impossible as well.
  
  Even if I text him a "hi" after weeks, I get no response. I don't understand why I'm still trying to save atleast our friendship when he doesn't even care if I'm alive or dead. We were best friends, but apparently, none of that means anything to him now. Can people really be that selfish? I dedicated myself to him, but now I just seem obsessed and pathetic.
  
  What now?
  

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